World’s greatest fools are those people who try to rationalize love and try their best in sketching out the reasons of falling in love.An article on love may not teach you anything about love but reading it is a better job than thinking about falling in love.
Looking back to those good old days when she looked up to you,she felt uneasy in answering all your questions,wind fluttering her hair,she turned back and gave a smile while going away,you decide she was in love.Or the reverse,he looked up to you over his shoulders,he admired you a lot,he finds everything in you and the list is endless.Friends,don’t get vexed.It’s a truth generally accepted and acknowledged and the films hype them a lot.The hero explains to the heroine the reasons of his falling in love with her.Give me a break.Don’t you think you just waste your time like this? Sorry,if i’ve hurt you but i can’t help.
The purpose of my article on love is not to crowd your brain but to make your morning/noon/evening (and not night because that’s not a time to read.Right?) a bit special with really good time.The more you try to explain why do you love,everytime you land up with havoc reasons of why do you like and never love.Love is not to be judged like that.It celebrates the existence of two people(i’m talking about romantic love only) in the way they want to be with each other.Something that makes the way for simply a feeling that you probably want in the innermost sensation at your heart and want your soul to present it before you.It simply happens and you can’t decide whether to love a person or not,you simply realise.You realise the greatest poety written for you by the almighty for the sake of justice to the universal happening of romance.A poet will write for you,a musician will play for you,your man/beloved will wait for you,and your love will motivate you.Say the witness of thousand falling stars, that the success of lover is meaningless without the success of the beloved’s realization,say the priest of civilisation,that the wave of utmost desire for the expression of romance from the right man in right time,in the beloved’s heart,is the pride of all young hearts.
Many says that love is friendship.Well it’s true.Most of the romantic relationship start with friendship and matures to love.But the friendship between two friends that matures to love and the friendship between two friends that matures to eternal friendship are different.The feeling in both,right from the begining,is different.None is lesser than the other.Both are important in life and you love both.Right friends?So guys who says “we are just friends and nothing more than that…” think again.Friendship is equally majestic as love,we take time to realise.You naturally want to see a very good friend in your man or lady at the same time you want your friend to be with you in your life,making fun of your love and you.Not together of course.
What about impressing your love of your life?you do it with lots of gifts and you go crazy on 14th feb.Your Mathew,Liza,Rajeev,Puja,Asif,Soha,Kishwar,Deblina,Avra,Karan,Dora,all of a sudden come under the tag of VALENTINE.It’s good to celebrate the day after all it’s all about the democracy of romance.But getting exceptionally attentive to your lover’s words or exclusively romantic makes the whole thing too artificial.Instead live in the present,don’t wait for appreciating her waist on that day,say it when it comes to mind.Don’t offer red roses if you find them too heavy for your wallet.Instead,no,it’s up to you,I won’t say,after all it’s your life.Hasn’t his craziness impressed you?Hasn’t her sudden arrival moved you.Calling you one night and telling you that he/she loves to talk to you at this hour,not because all the work is done,not that night is the time for that thing,but simply because today he/she finished all the work for a talk with you.Impressing comes when you find your dearling doing the thing which you like to have it from him or her.It’s not written anywhere in the whole universe,it’ll happen or happened in your life.It’s a momentary bliss.Sharing gift is nice but too much makes it artificial.
There’s no such thing as romantic atmosphere in the whole world that can be taken as the only leaders.Well,a rainy evening or a wintry noon,or…..you know it all,can’t be denied.It’s not only in these atmosphere that you feel your love or recollect,but walking down the street enriched with the chiaroscuro of the street light and darkness may remind you of her or him and you have in your mind lingering,”maula mila de mere yaar se mila….” or ENRIQUE with “tonight we dance….we’ll make it happen for sure….bailamos the rhythm takes you over…….”.Where’s the rhythm? It’s no where if you look around,it beats at your heart if you don’t think about it so materialistically.Well it’s just an example,your experiences may be better.Who will claim the pride of the realistic life,who will satirize the unsmartness of artificiality that we give the name of love,the answer is YOU with your love of course.To quote RABINDRANATH TAGORE,in his ghare baire(home and the world):”prem to aar boithhokkhana gare chinenatir fuldani noi…..”(Love is not just a bone-china vase at your parlour…..”Love is not gratifyng fancy,it’s real.You are born out of the soulfull nascence of the mighitiest realisation of your self,pratial though it’s the part of your soul.
There is a problem in proposing.You are too much in tension.You gift a ring,you bend down with a rose,and then ask”will you…..”the same old thing.Make it real.Varied reality never bores you.This type of proposal may be suitable to some but not for all.When you know she would marry you,she loves you,why such question?My dear sir,aren’t you sure?Or is it a gentleman style to offer a chance?The practical life doesn’t bother so much.Some like to have in a funky way.By the way,the style is nice and pleasing as long as you can bear with.No,it’s really elegant.
To conclude,some like their man to be reserve,some like to have them as guys running with varied life each day but stopping for her if she falls behind,waits till she comes and make her run with him,but all of you are gentlemen,trust me,you love her isn’t that enough?For men,don’t set any criteria for wives,and vice versa.You will find the qualities in the man you love and vice versa.You cannot have same to same life partner.A varied couple can make life going.You find a sort of satisfaction.Well are you trying to find out how?Oh please don’t try to find reason behind it.It’s the game of nature.
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